Craving God Day 15

I'll Have What She's Having

Thought for the day: Just because a woman is skinny doesnt mean she's healthy. The struggles are similar, just in a different size package.

One problem with trying to eat healthy is when you sit down next to a skinny girl who wolfs down everything on her plate. It makes me want to say , I'll have what she's having. A similar frustration pops up when Ms Petite picks up her kids in a cute tennis outfit that I could never wear.

The paradox of comparing ourselves to other people is that we become blind to what we already have in the face of what we dont have. Our hearts are drawn into a place of assumption. We assume that everything is great for those who possess what we lack.

But here's the kicker. Everyone has not so great aspects of their lives, things that they will have to learn to surrender or sacrifice. Sure, my size two friend could eat all the snacks she wanted, but she's got other struggles for which she has to depend on God. For instance, consider that skinny girl in your life who eats whatever she wants & makes you think, "How unfair". Yet listen to what she might say in return, as someone once shared with me: I am one of the skinny girls, but dont mistake skinny for healthy. I battle depression, self-esteem issues, & verbal abuse. The list seems endless. Being little doesnt make a person any more happy or joyful or faithful. The struggles are similar, just in a different size package.

Life as a Christ follower will always be a learning process of depending less on our own strength & more on God's power. James 1:3-4 says,

The testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature & complete, not lacking anything.

Why not make this a daily prayer, first thing in the morning: God, I recognize that I am made for more than the vicious cycle of being ruled by food, body image, and comparing myself to others. I am thankful that You made my body unique in ways that I can serve You & in ways that turn my reliance upon You. I need to eat to live, not live to eat. So I keep asking for Your wisdom to know what to eat and Your indwelling power to walk away from things and thoughts that are not beneficial for me.

Oh, sweet sisters, this truth should be the cry of our souls and drown out Satan's lie that "she has it easier." Our taste buds crave many things to satisfy, but only persevering with God will make us truly full.

(I really like this book & the authors take on food, diets,etc- I continue to struggle especially with the holidays, but trying not to beat myself up or get discouraged to the point of I dont care anymore).

Have a very blessed & wonderful Christmas everyone...